How to deal with men

March 21, 2015

 

Temilolu Okeowo

Dear Temilolu,

I read your write-up titled “Girls, Beware of men” and I must say it is a must for every girl. My daughter will read it. Thanks a million times. May God bless you and may your children possess the gates of their enemies.

Mrs. Olatunya

Dear Temilolu,

I am a 25 years old virgin. I thought holding on to it was foolishness until I read your article in Punch and your words gave me hope but I must confess it has not been easy for me. There are times I feel like bowing to pressure especially when my body yearns to be touched by a guy. Those moments are so terrible. However, today’s guys don’t seem to bother whether their future wife is a virgin or not. So, sometimes I feel like staying chaste isn’t worth it after all. My friends are sexually active. I feel ashamed to tell them I’m a virgin.

Angela

My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,

You will not only possess the gates of your enemies, God will give you the grace to control your flesh and have a firm grip on your super destiny in Jesus name. AMEN! As for Angela, if I catch her, I could be tempted to give her 12 hot strokes of cane because of her mindset (Laughs). Which man wouldn’t like to have a brand new, unspoiled, untouched for wife? Now, if you had to choose between two, which would you opt for? Brand new or fairly used?

Kudos to you Angela “omo ti o common” (uncommon lady). If only you knew how so many girls wish they could turn back the hands of time. Some say they never even enjoyed it after all their curiosity and arousal and wished they never got involved with pre-marital sex/the wrong person. Congratulations my golden Cherie, may God make you greater than the greatest person in your family and pair you up with the best husband in the world. AMEN! Please endure some more and be patient with God, you will certainly be too glad you did things His way. And if your entire life is a holy package, I assure your reward would be mind blowing.

How to deal with men

This topic discusses how to relate with both male and female and is for every age.

• 1. Don’t commit your life into the hand of any man. John 2:23-25

Our knowledge of the true nature of man is limited, Jeremiah 17:9-10 and there is an inherent or congenital propensity in man to do evil. Psalm 51:5. Also, the nature of man is fickle- man naturally can vacillate at any time. Matthew 26:33-34, 58, 69-75. By nature, man is liable to error. So we must not expect too much from any man.

• 2. If you make God your best friend, He will send good and faithful men your way.

The devil, our common enemy specialises in connecting great destinies with the wrong people i.e. people who could divert the course of their destiny in one way or the other. Most times, these people don’t even know that they are tools in the hands of the devil. They come into our lives as angels and may eventually wreak so much havoc that could cause irreparable damage. And that’s why it’s most advisable to make God our best friend and let our minds be God-centered. Once your mind is stayed on God, He’s not only committed to directing your steps and talking to you, He will also shield you from people who will cause you harm.

To be continued

Are you still engaging in pre-marital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a Secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and State of domicile to 07086620576.

The Girls Club of Nigeria is aimed at influencing a positive change in the female folk and re-orientating the Nigerian girl. Amongst other things, to promote and enhance the development of girls by instilling a sense of self-worth, competence, usefulness, belonging and influence while of course restoring traditional moral values and encouraging the girls to toe the paths of righteousness. If this generation can make amends, the next generation will come out clean. Don’t you think so? I love you all and I think you are all wonderful sisters!

For more inspiring articles and prayers against sexual perversion (masturbation, lesbianism, addiction to pornography and immoral thoughts etc.) prayers against ungodly soul-ties and prayers for recovery of virtues please visit my blog www.temiloluokeowo.wordpress.com

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Dear girls,

As designed by God, your virginity is the bedrock of your destiny. It is your spiritual beauty. It carries the star, potential and talent which God created with you to make you unique. It is the star in your sky. Please don’t pollute your destiny. The world is waiting for your star to shine! Your curiosity about sex and the way your body feels is normal. However, there’s so much you need to know which may eventually condition your mind and calm your desires. For now, DON’T dabble into it please.